Fire

آری، آری ، زندگی زیباست زندگی آتشگهی دیرنده پا برجاست گر بیفروزیش، رقص شعله اش در هر کران پیداست ورنه، خاموش است وخاموشی گناه ماست سیاوش کسرایی / / / / / Life is like fire, can burns forever. If we turn it on we can see flame dances from far away, other wise its dark and thats our fault.

When I was talking about some issues with Lida Jan at the end of conversation, her final advice to all my wondering was: "bozorg meshi, mefahmi, raheto peida mekoni" which I think it make sence, so there was no more reason to publish this post which I wrote couple of weeks ago.
but just as a promiss to a firend:




u r a nice person ( well every body think they r! ;) )
and there is some one who bothers and backbites [ ;) ] you.
How will you react?

Imagine, you ignore that person, wishing it would stop the vicious act. But nothing would change, and they take advantage of you being nice and sweet.

when you will draw the line? and say:
"hey back off. Thats enough"

Or do you even have a line? Or you beleive regardless what ever happen, you should be nice and sweet? and not argue/challenge people who you know they behave devilish?



Az belives; the same way one treat others, he/she should expect to be treated. If some one respect others, he/she should expect to be treated with respect and dignity. and thats the line. If pepole don't respect you the same way, you should make them to do so. even if it needs fighting back.
( kee bood megoft hagh dadani nistm gereftaniee?)

But would that always work?
If some one hits you, will you hit him back? will you waite till they hit you 3rd times, then you hit them back? 4th times? ....? will you bring "the other side of your face" for them to hit? or you just try to ignore them and keep smiling, (thinking you are a bigger man than they are) and they might stop or they might countinue hitting you as much as they can.